There are many problems that could be faced with the youth of today. Even in the more stable houses around the world. Adolescents will be always exposed to elements of confusion, uncertainty, the rivalries of brothers and sisters and their image.
Different people will show their emotions in different ways, but as a parent of an adolescent, it is difficult to the foundations of all the problems they can have the source. You were once a teenager, you remember all the pressures that you will be faced, peer pressure plays a huge role in many of the decisions we make. Many of which we will not know, are the bad decision until it is too late.
But we all learn from the experience and we could argue that we would not become what we are today without these experiences. So let's refresh our memories and look back to some of the difficulties that you may remember address and no doubt your son or your daughter will face at the present time.
Divorce-
Divorce is now a huge unfortunate part of our world, the reason behind this are not clear. In recent years, we have seen the rate of divorce in the rise of the country much different levels unthinkable. In all homes, parents will face disagreement; It is just a part of life. Spend much time with the other has its disadvantages, and too often the arguments arise because we have simply just to the other.
In the household, children see their parents argue is a Charter experience and confusing. It will seem as their parents do mutually like no more and the divorce will soon follow. What the child does not understand, is that, when their parents support, many of the words used are often regretted later in the day.
The child may also feel as if they are the reason that their parents are arguing. This makes for a kind of depression for the child and may decrease their sense of self-esteem to near rock bottom levels. It affects a child or young person much more that it will often affect parents and to that extent, it is important that the family arguments are not visible view of the young person or child.
Sibling rivalry-
Sibling rivalries are another phenomenon common in family houses. There will always be a form of completion between adolescents, which is the best person. The arguments are often trivial topics, such as girlfriends, silver or who is the favorite in the eyes of MOM and dad.
As a parent, you know you love your children both the same and will always, however, for the adolescents in adolescence, they will be always attempt the best, in the eyes of the parent. The words "you don't love me" or "you love him more" will become a common saying in the household. This is an achievement among adolescents to see who can win more popularity or attention of parents.
The cause of rivalry between brothers and sisters between adolescents, all boils down to a brother being jealous of the other. Growing up is a competitive society and ultimately, it will teach the child to be better in everything they do. It is a problem for adolescents, as sometimes the desire to Excel in something, can lead to decisions foolhardy lot, they may regret.
Here are some of the problems encountered by a young person, there is much more than in the growth, the young person may meet. As the teenager will push more old, dating and sex thoughts also begin to stealthily in the mind. The subject is full of peer pressure and many adolescents, this will be a subject that causes many days of regret and remorse for them.
Something that is often said, is that all problems will have to address a young person will never disappear and they will always be a part of the experience of life. They however help us life and have given us the necessary experience to make important decisions later in life.
Steven Harrison
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